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Update: Doubts, Fears, and Disappointments

Author: Pam Saulsby
April 25, 2010

“Nothing beats failure but a try.”

                –Pauletta Vaughn

 

 

Good news!   I made contact with the man who always has a plan:  John Kane of Kane Realty Corporation.

The conversation was short, sweet, and right to the point:  You’ve got the venues, I’ve got the voice. Let’s make something happen.   We were speaking the same language, and wheels are now in motion to put me in contact with a planner/manager to do a deal.

Folks, I needed this shot of opportunity.  I can’t say enough how much singing lights me up. 

In the meantime, I continue to polish up and smooth out the six songs I want to record.  I’m getting there and I like what I’m hearing so far.  I’m giving thought to asking my singing pal Bill to let me relieve him the next time he performs at Rey’s.  He’ll get to enjoy a much needed break, and I can work on giving my songs that finese it’s going to need.

Oh, and there’s another shot of good news I am happy to blast:  I have been invited by North Carolina’s Music Ambassadors, The Embers to join them again at the Summer Concert Series at North Hills.  Over the moon people, over the moon!!!

Yippie Skippie, that’s right.  One song we’ll do for sure: Baby, You’ve Got What It Takes.  Wayne Free and I are doing it Buble style.  I’m listening and practicing and loving it.  We’ll do a good job with it, I’m certain.

I am not so certain of the song or two that I’m going to sing solo.  The bandmembers had suggested Areatha’s Rock Steady.  I love love love the Queen of Soul.  Last summer I sang Chain of Fools.  Here’s the thing, though:  Areatha hits the high notes.  I just can’t go there naturally,  and feel good about what comes out of my mouth.  I must feel good about it.  I stretched really hard to do Chain of Fools, and I just don’t want to go there, this time. I’d like to be where I am nice and comfy.

I had suggested a litte ditty that is in the beach music genre called “Sweet Charlie Babe” by Jackie Moore.  It is a great song for couples who like to dance the shag.  I didn’t hear back about my suggestion, so I’m thinking the band didn’t much like it.  No worries. We’ll come up with something. 

I’d do some Gladys Knight before Areatha.  She has a range I can get in to.  Not sure if she’s recorded something beach music-y.

Hey, now that I got some peeps following me around with the blog, twitter, and all that.  you can help a sister out.

Any suggestions on some upbeat songs that you’d like to hear me perform with The Embers this summer?

Tell me all about.

This is an adventure!!!


“Doubts, Fears, and Disappointments”

Author: Pam Saulsby
April 19, 2010

They live in you.  They live in me.  Musically, I am shouldering all three of these negative emotions:  doubt, fear and disappointment.

Possible solutions are out there… I see them… but I have taken no action to make things better.

Way to be, right?

In this economy it’s not easy to land a regular spot at any of the local entertainment venues for many of us in the entertainment business.  The problem is, I’ve come to accept this new reality too easily without fight or protest.

That’s wrong.

What about the old saying, where there’s a will, there’s a way?

I believe in that saying, but I’m letting fear, doubt, and disappointment fill up too much of my thinking.  How I’ve allowed those feelings to creep into my passion for singing, I don’t really know.

I know I don’t like it.  I know the only one who can change this situation is me.

To that end, I’ve been thinking.. for weeks now.. about a man I know here in Raleigh.. An uber successful, savvy, forward thinking developer who could hold some answers to my immediate and lingering problem of landing a regular gig.

It is my intention to approach him THIS WEEK and have a conversation about venues in and around Raleigh.

What’s the worst that can happen?  He’ll tell me there is no suitable establishment that can fulfill my request.

What’s the best that can happen?  A hotel, restaurant or bar pops up straight way in his mind that he feels would be absolutely perfect for me.

Here’s to positive thinking and moving closer to the desires of your heart.

Stayed tuned, if you’re following this journey with me.

There will be news before the week ends.

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